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so I've been watching Youtuber Yumi King for years. in the later years a bit off and on, but I'm back to watching her struggles and I cant help but feel extremely bad for her situations as of now.

I use to watch her easy DIY videos like most of the gals that follow her channel but then she got this creepy, old ass husband. something was super off with this dude from the start, man. the whole thing... the whole relationship was super weird to literally everyone. Yumi came off as super childish, wore cute dresses and was into "kawaii" everything. literally me and probably why I gravitated toward her content more and more. BUT the childishness got a little too much for many viewers and the husband's reactions toward it all was.... creepy af. the way he treated her  like a little pet... a little girl was gross. always was condescending in how he spoke to her. in my opinion treated her like she was stupid and she may have played that off on YT but she's far from stupid.

she wanted to be married so bad and be pregnant so bad... which rushing into both of those things is a horrrrrrrible decision to make by anyone. I do believe her Chinese mother played a big part in her rushing marriage. because when I was visiting my family in Ohio, my Korean grandmother was asking me and my ex bf when we were going to get married and mentioned how it's important within minutes of meeting him. it's an Asian cultural thing for sure. so I think Yumi was brought up in the mind set that she HAD to be married with a child by a certain age. me and Yumi are about the same age and she was worried about not fulfilling those "requirements" before 30. I remember her videos expressing worry about being a "left over woman," or whatever she called it. so she rushed into this relationship with this man she met either thru her step father (creepy af if he set his daughter up with an old middle aged man) or on a dating site.

so she barely knew this man on a deep level (in my opinion upon viewing). it came to light that this weirdo had multiple, foreign wives in the past and had children with them. so he married these foreign women, gets them pregnant and dips. whether Y knew about this or not prior to marrying him is unclear to me but who knows what lies that creep told her. so... she gets pregnant... what do you know... he dips and denies the baby is his through court. what a piece of shit seriously. disgusting man who fetishizes foreign women and leaves them with children. not even apart of the children's lives. just denies them. how terrible for the children! every viewer saw this coming. 

so now she comes back on YT making videos in tears. she's been homeless with her baby living in different airbnbs and shelters. so the parents... the ones who we'd see on her videos seeming to care about her... nope... clearly do not seem to at all.  she came out to say she had been kicked out of her home 2 times now with her baby. left to fend for herself and no where to go. how shitty of human beings... parents at that are you!  that's so fucked up. you kick out your child, who you're suppose to do anything for... adult or not, you are a piece of shit for disowning your one and only daughter with a baby, for whatever fucking lousy reason. my mom would NEVER kick any of her children out. we're all adults and she always says there's a place at home with her... a loving family sticks together thru hard times. I'm sorry and I've said this hundreds of times but you don't disown your children if you really love them. that's it. you just don't. her mom and step dad are literally trash. they have money. they had/have 2 homes they own. Y was saying they helped her out a little then stopped and kicked her out (twice). disgusting. Y is trying to say 'well  they did help me a little...' no, babygirl... they should STILL be trying to help you and your infant son. you're an adult? so what? you're their child. if anything this shit is on the mother. her step dad, idk whatever... her mom married an old man too and wanted her daughter to do the same. she threw these ideals onto her own daughter... to marry an old creep. shame on her. 

cps took her baby away because she doesn't have a proper home to live in right now. she's staying in an airbnb. I'm so bothered by this and I don't even know her personally. but any person with empathy would feel sad hearing and seeing someone in such a horrible, awful situation. whether she rushed into things and shouldn't have been with a shitty man doesn't matter.... she's a person...a mom who cares about her son and is in a big struggle. if she lived near us I'd offer her a space in a second. my family has always been ones to take in friends and friends of friends who need help. that's just who we are.  I wish I had money to throw toward her Paypal because I would if I had it. I remember Trisha  Paytas donated her a couple grand to help her during her divorce. I thought that spoke volumes about who Trisha is as a person deep down. people hate Trisha for stuff she's said and done but at the end of the day she is a good person in my book. if you don't even know another content creator, that isn't crazy popular even, but decide to donate 2 grand, not broadcast or brag about it online... but just comment under her video expressing empathy and giving her some help. speaks volumes.  anyways this is on my mind right now and I wanted to get it out. I hate seeing people with shitty parents and shitty partners hurting people they're SUPPOSE to care about. gross. my heart goes out to her ♡

edit: some of what I said may be incorrect info but I'm going off memory of her previous videos when I use to regularly watch her content. 

Dear Yumi, if you ever stumble upon this post I hope that you can get to a place where you're comfortable and stress free. I hope you can find a new place that's suitable to get your son back. if you and I lived closer and I myself was in a better situation I'd allow you and your son into my home with open arms. you'd be welcome here. I am a strangers and you don't know me  but there are people out there that feel for you. reading your comments it looks like you have a lot of backers. I hope everything will work out for you and I'm sorry that your family is doing this to you. no family should ever put their loved ones in a place like this. I'm a long time viewer and I've been watching your journey on YouTube and I think you're a caring person who loves her son and would do absolutely anything for him. I think the love you have for your son will make things come together for you both. you'll get there. I hate to sound corny, but love conquers all. I think in the end you'll be okay I just hope it's sooner for you than later. ♡ good luck

double edit: she found a place :')