my hair sucks

yesterday I spent the entire day trying to do stuff to my hair when I probably should have left it alone and just added the pink back in it. first I tried to tone my hair but I got too carried away with the purple dye. my hair ended up purple tinted so I tried using the baking aoda/developer method & it just stripped out all of the toner and left my hair brassy. so I decided to just use more baking soda to get rid of the blue in my hair since the pink was already gone. the blue didn't come out at all. so I got stuck with further dried out hair with just blue color on half my head. it looks so stupid. I did this a couple times so in total I had to wash my hair like 5 or 6 times. I was super close to having a little break down and wanting to cut it all off. my sister told me to just use this hair mask over night and call it a day. so I decided to just re tone it and be careful with the purple... then wash it and read pink to the other side so it's not just blue on one side and blonde on the other. I guess I'll keep putting the pink in until the blue fades out on its own. the pink washes out like after 2 or 3 washes but the blue isn't doing anything. I have had blue before in hair and the baking soda method worked (even tho blues the hardest the fade) and it came right out. for some reason this time it isn't at all. guess I have harley hair for a while til that blue goes away. I literally only wanted pink and blue in my hair for a short while for something different but now I just want blonde and pink buy I can't. 😩